Relationship rant

My first rant on this blog!!!! Woohoo!

Well, numbers of my friends are in relationships. Not that that is a bad thing but I notice 1 thing in common, they don't last. The longest relationship was 5 months or so, in my point of perspective that is not very long. That was her first relationship, a year ago. Now she had moved on, she's now dating her 3rd boyfriend!

I find that really fast, having 3 boyfriends in 1 year! And she is apparently quite young. Well, 3 boyfriends in 1 year seems a lot, wait until you meet my other friend. To leave her identity clueless I shall call her J.

J fall in and out of love really easily and fast. She dated her first boyfriend when she met him for 2 weeks or so. She didn't really get to know him, he didn't really get to know her. Things fall out of places dramatically. They dated for about 2 weeks until the boy broke up with J.

J later dated a guy 2 years older than her. Before she dated "this" guy, J liked this one boy in her class, things never really stayed on her side. The boy never liked her back which I think is a total bummer for her. I think every girl who went through the same situation understand the pain. Well, she dated this guy. Exactly like the first guy she dated, she really TALKED to him 1 time before the dated. Never knew each other, they soon fall apart in a horrible HORRIBLE way. After they broke up the drama never really broke, they would constantly fight, blaming each other for going to the same mall, on the same day, at the same time. It's like some kind of movie, I could grab some popcorn, sit back and enjoy the show. Happily, things are sorted, everything is fine now.

Now J's 3rd charmer, a guy a year older than her, they met while a school production, once again things weren't on her side, soon the school year ended, they parted, he moved. Wasn't a happy ending for J...ONCE AGAIN!

Now the 4th and current one, quite interesting. They always hated each, hating mean seriously HATING! They're kind of like rivals in some ways. But who knew one day they will be love birds. They've dated for 1 or 2 days now. Just hope for the best that this one will last. Hoping :) haha

Well, I have no problems with relationships but I think these relationships can make you look like a different person by simply dating too many people in a month, or a year, or whatsoever. I also really like those people who think they know each other when they hardly do, like "OMG! I know everything about him/her because we've seen each other from 2 weeks and we've talked once!" Like No! Sometimes it takes years, even 2! So my advice to those who are single and ready to mingle, TAKE YOUR TIME, you don't wan to find out that he is someone you are not hoping him to be. So TAKE YOUR TIME.


Love,

Hearts and stars :)

Bye x